i cant even delete my old card off my account somebody help me
You can't remove any sort of payment method off of your Xbox LIVE account when you have a Xbox LIVE Gold Membership (like you currently have).
If for some reason you would like to remove your payment methods off of your account while having a gold membership you will need to
contact phone support directly and speak with a billing agent.
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