So I made a male character and he married one of the Diabellan priestesses. I told her to move into Breezehome, but never turned up. She's not in Markarth or back in Riften. The children still have dialogue as if she were there. Is this just a permanent
Sometimes I leave Lydia in the Breezehome house when I go adventuring solo. Upon my return, it's not always easy to find her. Sometimes she just sits quietly in a dark corner of the room, different rooms at different times. I'd recommend you illuminate the
place with candlelight and search every corner of every room before giving up.