If you are tired of teammates rushing more to the vechiles than to the flags, try the INFANTRY servers. You still have access to Heli's and Jeeps/Humvees, just not jets and tanks.
If you ask me, there aren't enough teammates for all these vechiles. You end up only having a couple people on the ground capping flags and MCOM's and most are in the air or a tank.
We need more players on these servers!