So I am having some trouble with being allowed to purchse the deed to build a house with the Hearthfire DLC. So far I have tried in Dawnstar. I've talked to the Jarl, but she hasn't asked me to purchase land yet, and a courier has not approached me either. I completed the Waking Nightmare quest long ago, and have killed 3 giants for the Jarl, but still nothing. Does anyone know what I am missing? Any help would be great!! Thanks!!