As confirmed on Joystiq and GamesRadar, apparently the mass outcry on the BSN has succeeded. Male Shepard can now have samesex relationships. Although if you consider a single gender race Asari and femshep samesex,
whatever. Personally I don't like this, but only because I try to explore all dialogue. If by chance I accidently start into a romance quest with Garrus, then the dialogue starts getting weird before I realize it, I'm going to be pissed. Cause then, it's just
gonna be awkward.
If you want proof, search the sites for it yourself, the link is broken because it includes the word g - a - y and the forums won't even allow it in a link if you hide the url.