Yeah I am not sure why it never showed up. I just started making everything myself like PIRATE said. I just keep going around to all the shops and buying the supplies and building it all myself. I wish there was a bit more customization but it is still enjoyable.
How long did you give you steward to do this? I asked "my thane" person to come to my house, got to house and nothing. Three game days go by. The wife was playing and just asked a follower to become steward. Then the next day, thats 4 days later, that
person finally makes it to my house. She comes 4 days late.
I was just wondering if there was a time limit on it.
I got a courier letter when I first downloaded the DLC, it said to go to the Honorhall Orphanage (or whatever) in Riften to adopt. I first upgraded the Whiterun Breezehome to add a kid's room, then I adopted two kids in Riften, and they went there...