I recommend both PMS Clan and Popchix. Both are great communities and even if you don't join PMS Clan you are more than welcome to register on the forum's and get to know everyone. Guys are more than welcome to join the forum's as well and we do have a brother
I'm aware of the acronym's other use. Just figured I'd tell you what it stood for in regards to the clan. It's the world's largest multi-platform online female clan. While I am not a member, I have a fair few friends with them.