I have the standard headset and I can't get it to work. I updated my controller but I didn't have the headset plugged in when I did it.. now I can't update the controller anymore.. should the headset work even though I didnt have the headset plugged in when I updated it? How can I re-update my controller? ugh this is so frustrating. I haven't found any help from xbox trouble shooting so Im trying the forums.