open NAT but cant connect to friend who also has open NAT

My friend and I cant connect to each other in any xbox live features. We both have open NATs and can play together if one of us follows the other into a match. I have dsl and he has cable. this started out a few months ago but we could connect after a few trys. We havent been able to connect in about a month now. We can also individually connect to mutual friends in a party but if it's just us online, no dice. How can we correct this issue?

 

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Last updated July 4, 2018 Views 2 Applies to:

Can you and your friend both answer these questions in the same thread? That would make it easiest for the community to take a look at your specific issue. Thanks!

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what is your isp? are you an your friend using the same one? there is a massive thread on here somewhere with users (of Orange internet i beleive ((i may be wrong)) ) having exactly the same issue as you. It seems its an issue with the internet provider and not xbox live

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