I've been working at it for a while and can't seem to find a solution that works. I can connect to parties and everything just fine, but when I go to start up a game that needed an update (Elder Scrolls 4: Oblivion) my laptop gets disconnected from the internet, my xbox disconnects, and I can't access xbox live when i have the game operating. If I dashboard, I get reconnected to Live and can use party chat again (!?). I've tried resetting the modem and router countless times, opened ports, fiddled with DMZ and Upnp. HELP!