I am having problems connecting to a party, private chat, or game to a certain friend.

Okay i send my friend a party invite but he cannot connect and neither can I.

When i connect to a private chat with him the chat channel says "Joining Chat"

But kicks me out it later.

My NAT Is Open and so is his

We are both wired connected to xbox live.

 

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Last updated July 4, 2018 Views 1 Applies to:

Hey LittleVT! To be sure, is this the only friend you are having issues with? Have you tried connecting to parties with this friend in multiple games? Or is this a game specific issue? Can you also please go to http://speedtest.net on a computer on the same network as your console, take the test there, and post the result image back here. Thanks!

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But i am able to connect to XBOX and play games with a 3bar.

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Greetings, LittleVT! Are you only encountering this problem with the one friend? Which titles have you had trouble with? Is it only one specific game, or does it happen no matter what you're playing? Thanks for the clarification!

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Its just XBOXlive chat thats not working for a certain friend.

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Hey there VT! You mentioned that this only happens with the one friend, are there many others that do work fine? Does this one friend have trouble with other people as well, or just you? If he has issues with other folks, I would strongly suggest having him check his NAT setting again, maybe even resetting his router to factory defaults and setting it back up again. Let us know, thanks!

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My friend only has issuses with me.

Update:

Now i have another friend that wont work with.

Its been a month now and i havent talked to them in SO LONG!

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Is seriously NO ONE GONNA HELP ME?

Now i cannot connect to anyone and i have a good connection.

Is it my setting? Someone HELP?

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Hello LittleVT,

Please tell your friends if they have a Strict or Moderate NAT Type to go to this page (http://support.xbox.com/en-us/pages/xbox-360/troubleshoot/kb/error-your-nat-type-strict.aspx?kbid=979000)

If you have any questions post back on this forum!

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