If you're worried I'm going to put names and such in this, you're wrong. I read your how to avoid being harassed message and let me tell you I've followed most of the steps and it hasn't stopped in a couple of years.
I've filed complaints on every gamertag he's made but he keeps making new ones. Now the worst part is that he's giving our tags to randoms and telling them we like to do sexual things on xbox so the messages never really stop. He's sent me messages telling me to ****.
I called the hotline to ask what I was supposed to do about that. They told me to call the police. I called the police. The police told me to call my ISP. What good is that going to do? My ISP does not track xbox live messages, xbox live does. This is a serious issue because the police aren't up to date on anti cyber bullying processes. They have no idea what I'm talking about when I try to explain. Plus they tell me since he's in a different state even if there were charges brought against him they'll never extradite him. That kills the whole point of just trying to make it stop.
The only step I haven't taken to make this stop is to make my voice and text communications friends only. The reason I don't do this is because I enjoy making friends over xbox live that play the same games as me and aren't trash talking jerks. I'm the victim here, if you want to call me that, and I shouldn't have to stop enjoying playing because of someone who wont grow up and move on.
I figure this really wont help anything. Actually I'm betting it gets deleted for being in the wrong forum or whatever, but I needed to get this out and feel like I was doing something productive that didn't include filing complaints on dirty messages that never seem to get answered or stop anything. Thanks for your time, whoever does read this. I'm sorry it's whiney but after two years of constant harassment I'm ready to pull my hair out and throw my xbox out the window. I'm just a sixty dollar a year subscription that I know xbox doesn't need but...gosh dang.