Thanks everyone. I fixed it by getting rid of Windows 10, did a clean install of Windows 7...
EDIT:
lol turns out that even after a complete clean install of Windows 7, the Update feature hung, (it would kust get stuck at "Checking for Updates". I tried the usual net stop wuauserv and then net start wuauserv with the same results. I figured I'd take a
chance and try upgrading to Windows 10 again... That too got stuck at "Checking for Updates" during the install. I did the CMD run as administrator and just used the "net stop wuauserv" command, (without restarting it), and that seems to have fixed the update
issue. Windows 10 finished the install, (got stuck one more time during that process at Checking for Updates so I intervened with another CMD "net stop wuauserv" and then Windows 10 finished the install and once up and running the automatic updates are working
again.
Not sure what if anything I did to fix it, but it seems like Windows 10 does not play well with the "wuauserv" whatever that is.