Hello im. I'm Greg, 10 years awarded Windows MVP, here to help you.
1) Try these fixes for Xbox One controller not connecting in Windows 11:
https://windowsreport.com/xbox-controller-not-r...
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https://appuals.com/xbox-controller-not-working...
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https://techdator.net/xbox-controller-not-recog...
https://www.androidgreek.com/windows-11-control...
https://www.technewstoday.com/xbox-controller-d...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ANuZhI_uS6o
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjV9Xl21fqM
2) Update your drivers and BIOS/UEFI firmware from PC or motherboard maker's Support Downloads web page, using the full model number, Serial Number or Dell Service Tag on sticker. Compare the latest drivers available for download with the ones presently installed in Device Manager reached by right clicking the Start button. Make sure you have the latest BIOS or UEFI firmware, Chipset, Display (Video), Sound, USB3, Bluetooth, Network and all other drivers, or else download and install the latest now.
Updating drivers from the Device Manager or Windows Update is rarely enough. The most basic thing we need to learn to maintain a PC is keep the latest manufacturer's drivers installed from their Support Downloads web page.
3) One of those usually works. If not then contact Xbox Support:
https://support.xbox.com/en-US/contact-us
You can also post in the Xbox forums and ask for an Ambassador who are the MVP's of Xbox:
https://forums.xbox.com/en-US/home
I hope this helps. Feel free to ask back any questions and keep me posted. If you will wait to choose if I solved your problem, I will keep working with you until it's resolved.
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