Hi, 'a'a'a'_
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I'm sorry that Windows Defender has been causing you trouble. If you want to disable Windows Defender, you can try the following methods:
Method 1: Registry Editor (Applies to all versions of Windows 10)
Press Win + R to open the "Run" dialog, type regedit, and press Enter.
In the Registry Editor window, navigate to the following key: If the Windows Defender key does not exist, you will need to create it. HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Policies\Microsoft\Windows Defender
Right-click on the Windows Defender key, select "New -> DWORD (32-bit) Value," and name it DisableAntiSpyware.
Double-click on DisableAntiSpyware, set the "Value data" to 1, and click OK.
Close the Registry Editor and restart your computer.
Disclaimer: Generally, modifying registry subkeys or work group is intended for advanced users, administrators, and IT Professionals. It can help fix some problems, however, serious problems might occur if you modify the registry incorrectly. Therefore, make sure that you follow these steps carefully. For further protection, back up the registry before you modify it. Then, you can restore the registry if a problem occurs. For more information about how to back up and restore the registry, click How to back up and restore the registry in Windows - Microsoft Support to view the article.
Method 2: Security Center Service (Applies to all versions of Windows 10)
Press Win + R to open the "Run" dialog, type services.msc, and press Enter.
In the "Services" window, find and double-click on "Security Center" (or "Windows Defender Security Center" in newer versions).
In the "Properties" window, set the "Startup type" to "Disabled," then click "Apply" and "OK."
Restart your computer to apply the changes.
Sincerely
Nicholas | Microsoft Community Support Specialist