X box one constant problems

On my xbox one i can never just turn it on and play it. There's always some issue. Like for example we tried to play forza 5 local multiplayer but the controllers kept disconnecting and the profiles kept logging out. Then you'd get to the car selection screen and player 2 would press the button to join and it would kick us back to the home screen. On call of duty it usually fails to load my profile data. On Ride it tells me i dont have the rights to play this game, so i need to buy it at x box store or insert the disc, which is already in the console. It regularly fails to recognize discs of all kinds. This morning it just wouldnt let me sign into my profile.Is there a fix for this? Or is this just how the are? It has latest software and ive done a factory reset (because it forgot all the app and game names). My brother is staying at my place and he's giving me a hell of a hard time over how *** this system is. He has a ps4 and said the only problem hes ever had was when he shut it down halfway through a software update and it took him ten minutes to get it fixed which is let time than it normally takes me to get my xbox to play a game each time i turn it on.