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I am creating new styles in a template. Why can't I apply the style to any DOCUMENT I have that is not based on a template. I have created the style in a DOCUMENT, and it STILL WILL NOT APPLY IT TO ANY OTHER DOC. In other words, it is not even a selection.
Why have I spent all this time when I can only use it for the doc I have done it in. And yes, I have clicked the Apply to Other Documents box in all cases.
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What you are seeing is how Styles have always worked (at least back to Word 97).
In Word 2007 the Quick Styles Gallery was added. If you want to see a style there, you need to configure it to show up there. Otherwise, it is still in the styles list with all the other styles unless you marked it as hidden.
You have never been able to "apply" styles in one document to another document. If it is a custom style and you copy something in that style, the style should transfer. Otherwise, you need to use the
Organizer to copy styles from a document/template to an existing document.
When you save style modifications to the normal template, the styles will be available to
new documents based on the normal template. They will not become available to existing documents automatically.
Take a look at A Global StyleSheet in Microsoft Word? for some ideas.
You can import/update styles in an existing document by checking a box on the Document Template dialog (Developer Tab ) but this box should not be left checked.